Vicious Cycle

“How does this guy manage to create more tasks than he completes?!” 

I once had a direct report who was “net negative” when it came to productivity. Although very smart, he was largely oblivious to the nuances of communication. 

When a customer would ask for something, he was unable to see how their request fit in the broader picture. He couldn’t intuit what the customer “really” wanted to know. As a result, he would dutifully respond to the specific request without providing any context or influencing in any way, invariably provoking more customer questions that had to be followed up on. 

It was a vicious cycle - at the end of each day, his list of customer questions and requests was longer than it had been the previous day. 
As a manager you may have observed a similar behavior pattern in one of your direct reports. You can provide training, coaching, and real-time feedback to try to drive improvement. In my experience, such interventions either quickly “turn on the switch” and the person catches on, or no matter what you do the person doesn’t ever improve to any significant degree. 

I believe that the ability to empathize (in this case, to see the world from the customer’s point of view and to act accordingly) is an inherent personality trait established at a young age. In the case of my employee, no matter how many times or different ways I tried to help him see the broader implications of a given request, he fell back on the literal response to the specific question. In the end, he was simply not a good fit for a customer-facing role.
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